poori
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pre marital sex??
i dnt think so its the very problematic issue..
i support it. i feel senseless about whatever cases i find opposing it.
if both guy/gal has no objection, y does ppl does care n make it a issue??
fulltoo senseless..
if ppl have a knowledge of safe sex then none can object them
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Ranjana
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these days when this generation doesnt understand the purpose of marriage, family, social life etc, and think education-job-marriage-kids are just
routine, one following other or one being qualification for next, its useless to discus about sex, whether its post or pre marital
people study for job
do job for good marriage
marry for sex
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Sharmila
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i agree with u ranjana...
ppl with higher qualifications still dnt understand the life cycle...
they study for job, they work for money, they earn for marriage which means for kids..
they dnt have respect on any terms of life, they jus follow where life takes them...
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Ranjana
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i dont understand how people relate educational and job qualifications as deciding factors for marriage !!!!
how can u guarantee that a guy with phD can be a good husband
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Sharmila
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thats what abt one need to think over
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Ranjana
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atleast lets hope that current generation thinks
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this topic took interesting turn 
looking at horoscopes for personality and mentality match and for good future was tradition in old days
these days money is playing major role
if he/she has lots of money or has good education with good prospects to make money abroad, ppl r getting married
wts guarantee that a rich man be good husband
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Ranjana
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how many girls in this generation remain virgins till 20 atleast?
i dont see much in cities n towns
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Samantha
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i dont see any such things like virgins once they cross 15
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deepa
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these days many girls are trying it with even strangers just for thrill and experience
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Ranjana
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i know  gals are going with just anybody and getting into problems
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why is that the rapist is sympathetic with victim after committing the act?
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Ranjana
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if you are a man, then please stay out of this section
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Sharmila
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pre marital sex with fiance is a good one than going with the strangers jus for fun..
am always wondered why gals r making such mistakes even when they are modern n practical..
what if the stranger tape the sex episode with her n release it on internet or blackmail of it???
gals need to be analitical than fast decisive..
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SaSirEkha
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even sadist husbands do record and keep a copy and blackmail wife often to get more money or to shut her mouth about his affairs
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I do not feel that premarital sex is a good thing.
If somene loves you they love you unconditionally .. this crap about having "sample sex" to seeif the partners match up or what not ..is just really
sick ..look at all the diseases!
Marriage is no longer sacred its another step to dating!
Like a guardian Angel,
The Lighthouse stands,
Sending out hope in the night.
Like a faithful friend
Reaching out a hand
Bringing comfort, truth, and light.
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Sharmila
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exactli..
sex is a physical need n marriage is a mental support...
many people matching these two needs n making a mess out of it..!!
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deepa
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people these days are going by the thought that spouse is also a product.
when we buy something we try it first
so they applying it in marriage also
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Shalu
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what about quality guarantee or warrantee for replacement
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Sushma
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is this a product in market to have warrantees
marriage is a social event
sex is personal
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Srikanth
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now that supreme court in india ruled out a statement in favor of pre-marital sex and livin together relations, what do you think of this?
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vhk
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actually differs frm person to person.pre marital sex is no big deal, its alredy in full swing as its not known or spreaded,but when it comes to
living together relations not all take it easy. it takes tim for ppl to accept,no worry for ppl who dont care about others.but wat about ppl who think
indian culture is changing to western culture etc etc..
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Ranjana
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i know a couple who had pre-marital sexual relation for almost 2 years before the lady met another guy and decided to marry him.
But without her knowledge, that 2nd guy met 1st guy and fixed his sister's wedding with 1st guy.
1st guy and lady never discussed about their individual marriage plans with each other.
Now what will be their relation after 1st guy marries 2nd guy's sister and 2nd guy married 1st lady
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Quite confusing but intresting fact
"Arrow can be shot only by pulling the thread backwards.Whenever Life pulls u back,dont worry,it is going to lead you to VICTORY."
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i think relations are formed after marriage.
so after their individual marriages, whatever relations formed are important.
But it may be difficult for them to ignore past easily
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Ranjana
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yes. neither of the marriage is performed yet and i think they can stop atleast 1 marriage so that they wont get into uncomfortable relations in
future
this is one of the side effects of pre-marital sex
i know a couple who had such affair for 1 year and later decided to get married.
Their parents met to pick a suitable date and during talks they realised that she is distant cousin sister of him
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Suniljitto
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Thats the sad part.....If the couple was muslim then no issues...otherwise it is a big problem
"Arrow can be shot only by pulling the thread backwards.Whenever Life pulls u back,dont worry,it is going to lead you to VICTORY."
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vhk
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my god just cant imagin loking at such things arrainged marig would be beter as we cant choose a partner for affairs by looking at there family bak
grounds...
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