Guia K Monti
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Whats the problem if woman is elder than man?
I read in many books and magazines that men usually dont prefer women who are elder than them
exception are few fantasies and fetishes
Is it true that younger man mating elder women will become older earlier?
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Ranjana
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i think many men are insecure about women being elder than them
they assume domination.
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Sushma
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i think there are some health issues also involved here
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deepa
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not much health issues but 2 problems will surface as major
1. women will get older soon and man will still have his libido strong even in 40s.
in this case woman may touch 50s and even have meno-pause which can stop her active sex life leaving her man unsatisfied.
Also women tend to look older much earlier than men maybe because of pregnancy, improper nutrition, laziness etc
2. man who mates an elder women will start looking older quickly
he will get wrinkles on his face, under eyes, get grey hair even in beard and moustache quickly.
man's organ has special variety of skin which can absorb women's lubricant during sex and this will vitalise a man.
if he mates unhealthy, weak or older women, he will absorb that energy and look weak and old soon
on the contra, woman who mates younger man will transfer her old age to him and look younger.
so since olden days man always married younger women
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Sharmila
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woman mating a younger guy will obviousli give her good satisfaction in sex, which will make her depression for sex away n keep her face more brighter
n beautiful..
the guy in this situation will b left unsatisfied which him carry the mental problems faced by the lady like wrinkles, dark circles, head ache,
irritation n so on..
this is because many believe in, sex is the best relief/refreshment/physical work out, so unsatisfaction in it would definiteli make them look ugly..
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pallavi
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i wonder how sachin tendulkar , saif ali khan etc maintained health
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Sharmila
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celebrity gym n bharath takur hain naa.. 
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Shalu
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sachin is still in 30s and saif left his old wife long back and now dating young gals
so no problems
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deepa
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saif looks much better after divorcing old wife
she was more than 10 yrs older than him
cant understand how he liked her initially
see all those men in 60s who look young actually do yoga or have affairs with girls in teens or 20s
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Anoo
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whatever may be the medical/physical reason, the pair of older woman and younger man doesnt look good
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Nivedita
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elder man with younger woman looks succesful
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Ranjana
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same with elder woman - younger man, but society can't accept a woman's success and man's failure
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utkaarsh
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i think as it is women are much more mature than men , hence generally 3 yr age gap is ok , the guy being elder....
if its other way then realtionship is not normal at all
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pravin kumar
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Deepaji,
I agree with your reply totally. Even Ranjanaji said men would feel inferior and that is true but some years back I read a number of couples actual
life story where the lady was elder to man by say 3 to 10 years and the man appeared to be happy. Maybe exceptions.
Pravin Kumar
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madhav
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our ancestors thought well before marrying so they maintained 6-10 years gap between man and woman and always preferred woman younger than man.
Thats because initially in 20s she may feel him friendly and younger if he is close to her age but in 30s, she will start looking older than him and
in 40s her sexual life is almost over while he is still active.
if age gap is 6-10 yrs then man gets into 50s when women gets menopause and this helps them stay together without any disturbances
if woman is elder and crosses 40s , man is still in 30s it will be worst relation, both physically and psychologically
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Srinivas
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That is the only reason why Mr.Saif had left Mrs.Amrita Singh Khan for young Woman Ms.Karina Kapoor.
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rishi8011
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tendulkar's wife is also 5-6 yr elder than him... but they r maintaining very good relation and they look gud together
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It is the biological clock in women lead way to the formula of older the boy marry younger girl . That too the stipulated difference should be around
8-10 yrs in olden days, now it is diminishing and negative age difference prevail.
this new way of marriages will lead to unhealthy atmosphere as already discussed, and not sure how the kids health from such a parent will grow up
into.
To sum up it is the reproduction strategy, ease of conceive/labor for woman, and cope up in old age .
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